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What We Offer

We plan the logistics. Everything else is yours.


Full Itinerary Planning

We build your complete trip: flights, accommodation, ground transportation, restaurant reservations for meals you will eat alone or with someone you have not spoken to in years, and a printed itinerary that includes the address of the conversation along with a suggested arrival window and a note about parking.

Every itinerary is built around the specific nature of your journey. We do not use templates beyond the structural ones. Your situation is not like anyone else's, and while the logistics are similar, the routing is always specific to you.

Conversation Timing Consultation

Not all hours are appropriate for the conversation you need to have. We advise on timing based on the nature of the regret, the likely schedule of the other party, and our institutional experience with the emotional physics of apologies delivered at different times of day.

Mornings are direct. Afternoons allow for a walk afterward. Evenings risk running too long. We have opinions. They are informed by data we have collected but do not publish.

Script Consultation

We do not write your words. We provide a structural template: opening (why you are there), body (what you regret), and close (what you are asking for, if anything).

Many clients believe they need to explain everything. They do not. We help identify which parts of the story the other person already knows and which parts they need to hear from you. The result is usually shorter than the client expects.

Aftermath Planning

The hour after the conversation is the most poorly planned hour in most reconciliation attempts. Clients leave the meeting and find themselves standing on a sidewalk with no plan and a great deal of feeling.

We plan the aftermath: a restaurant with a corner table, a walking route through a part of the city you have no history with, or a hotel room with a minibar and no obligations until checkout.

Companion Coordination

Some clients prefer to bring someone with them; a spouse, a sibling, a friend. We coordinate companion travel and accommodation, and we advise on whether the companion should be present for the conversation or available afterward.

Our general advice: afterward. The conversation should be between you and the person you owe it to. The companion is for the part where you sit in the car and cry.

Annual Return Planning

Some regrets are not resolved in a single visit. We offer annual return itineraries for clients who wish to maintain a practice of returning to a place or a person on a recurring basis.

Annual return clients receive priority booking and a standing reservation at a restaurant we have identified as suitable for the kind of meal where nobody speaks for the first ten minutes.


To begin, contact our team. We will ask you where you need to go, who or what you are going back for, and how long you have been putting it off. The third question is not for judgment. It is for scheduling.